(August 31, 2022) Or as Nature Pagans say, let the deity choose you because your feelings open channels which attune you to some set of powers which can be personified and be seen as a deity. Most humans are wired to relate best to other humans. This carries over into the spiritual world even though we do not see deities on the physical plane. Instead we can feel their presence of deities.
Sometimes your feelings do not fit any ancient conception that has come down to us so you can just make up your own deity name for your set of attunements.
If your deity is personified then you will connect with it in the same loving way as with human partner. These connective practices are: